Have you noticed how the very thing that bothers you about someone else is often what you wrestle with yourself? You see impatience in traffic, and it drives you crazy—then you realize you’ve been honking a little too much, too. Or a friend brags just a little too often, and you think, “I can’t stand that,” but deep down God is saying, “Look closely—there’s a mirror in front of you.”
God has a way of using the people around us as mirrors. Those people who push our buttons, who get under our skin, who frustrate us—they’re not accidents. They’re opportunities. Before you get upset, before you judge, stop and ask, “Lord, what are You showing me about me?”